Oh, I'm so scare. I need to be careful. It hurst when your daughter fits this description. Be an adult and look at the reality. The top clubs recruit the biggest, athletic and with birth years in Jan- March. Why? to win trophies and increase revenue. Those clubs have 5 or more teams in some age groups. Do you really think that they are developing your DD? Think again. Profit, profit, and profit. Grow up.You might wanna be careful talking about 11 year olds on this forum. Not everyone is from the OC on here and might not appreciate you speaking about their daughters that way. I totally understand if you just described your own daughter and feeling sorry for yourself...OK!