justneededaname
SILVER ELITE
Thank you everyone for your advice. My dd has decided to stay with Team 1. But, she has also decided to start training regularly with the coach from Team 2 for extra practice. To her, that will give her the best of all worlds, she gets to play with the girls she knows and loves as well as train with a coach she was really excited about.
I asked her what she likes about soccer and what she wants from a team. She said she wanted a team where the girls were nice and were happy to see her when she came to practice. Where the coach and other players would push her to get better. Where they win and score goals.
Then I asked her what she thought she would learn from each coach. What she talked about with the coach of Team 1 was very team and style of play oriented. What she talked about with the coach from Team 2 was very player oriented.
When I suggested playing on Team 1 and training with the coach from Team 2 she lit up in a smile and it was like a great weight was lifted off of her shoulders.
I asked her what she likes about soccer and what she wants from a team. She said she wanted a team where the girls were nice and were happy to see her when she came to practice. Where the coach and other players would push her to get better. Where they win and score goals.
Then I asked her what she thought she would learn from each coach. What she talked about with the coach of Team 1 was very team and style of play oriented. What she talked about with the coach from Team 2 was very player oriented.
When I suggested playing on Team 1 and training with the coach from Team 2 she lit up in a smile and it was like a great weight was lifted off of her shoulders.