How about this for a fun weekend of soccer.
1. Saturday game at Galway downs. Hour and 45 minutes there. 45 minute warmup. 100 minute game. Stop for lunch. Hour and 45 minutes home.
Left the house at 7:30 am- Got home around 2:30pm. 6 hours on the road. $10 for parking (cash only)
2. Sunday game at SoCal Complex (Oceanside). Gave extra time for traffic (but it was very light Sunday morning). 45 minute drive. There 30 minutes before warm ups. 45 minute warm up. 90 minute game. Hour drive home.
Left the house at 9:45. Got home at 3pm. 5 1/2 hours on the road.. ($12 for parking)
I know that having a social life is important for kids. My wife and I also like going to dinner, parties, etc. This soccer thing is getting in the way.
Now you know why participation numbers are down and people have a hard time justifying spending 12+ hours away from home and basically two days to play 3 hours of soccer while paying a lot of that experience between the parking, transportation costs, club, league fees, refs, etc.
Not a hobby that comes without some tradeoffs. This kind of time and expensive is really not need for the majority of players, local play should be fine for 70% of them I would guess. For the 25% or so really competitive teams and players that play / to everything else ratio maybe worth it but for everyone to travel like that, I dunno.