Learning to win matters for sure. my players took out their frustrations on other courts and fields. Soccer wasn't in the win column for a few years. They had to endure a few years of rondos, 1 v 1 ladders, etc,. They are better players for it now and are confident with their first touch, both feet, etc.My dd was the one who waited in the wings looking for her pray. Winning is all that matters to her. She has National Championship medal, Surf Cup medals, State Cup Champ, Blues Cup Champ, Legends Champ, 3 x 3 Coastal Champ, Far West Regional Champ, West Coast Champ, Surf Thanksgiving champ and so many more. To each his dd their own is motto.