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Here's some curve balls for argument sake.
Are we being more critical because she's not a boy? Why arnt we trashing all the boys in Europe for signing with professional clubs and academys at a young age?
Personally I think OM path looks screwed up from the outside because here in the states we really don't have a proven blueprint for our male/female players. She's a trailblazer right now just like Pulisic was.
I think that is a fair question to ask and one we should all consider. That said, I think the answer is "no, sort of" because even if we are critical of a 13yo boy signing a pro deal (I can certainly get into my issues with the European academy model), a career as a soccer player is far more possible for that boy than for any 13yo girl. If a boy is good enough to play professionally even in the 2d or 3d divisions in Europe, he can earn a living (10 years ago (the first article I found in a recent search), 2d to 4th tier English players make, on average: "£195,750, League One players £67,850 and League Two £49,600"; premier league players averaged more than 3x; my guess is that those #s are higher - considerably? - today). The top women players can't touch that unless they are in the elite among the elite category, in a WC year (add in a substantial sum if they have the intangibles to ink endorsement deals).
Until the economics change, it seems that the dream that even the best 13yo will be the best 24yo with intangibles for endorsements is still a risky dream and, at 13yo, one gives up a TON to be on those very few players.