@rainbow_unicorn it is a showcase and the purpose of that showcase is to be seen by college scouts/coaches. If the coach doesn't believe in their player's ability, then they should not have the player on the team. Parents are at fault too. Options are always available, but quitting should never be the option. Perhaps finding a more appropriate level or a coach that sees what your DD brings to the table whether is be another GDA, ECNL, or any other acronym team. The others have clarified and explained my observation. You have only brought "you can quit or work harder." The player that I observed didn't miss a beat when she finally made it to the field. Fast and athletic. This is no entitlement. It's a showcase! Most girls in competitive leagues are doing so for the exposure. If what you all say is true about sub rules being different, then why not play all the girls? Oh, yes, it counts for standings. The Cup you all will be chasing next year will only make it worse.