(Sarcasm) Maybe these Ivy League school will have a special major for the star athletes that score below a combined SAT of 400. They could have majors in Fast Food cook and register worker, how to restock clothes at Marshals, Busboy 101.
DD had a teammate her last two years that accepted a soccer scholarship to a very respected academic D2. She failed out after the first semester. Her combined (3 scores) SAT was 590. At least she chose a very respectable profession after failing out and a good way to learn and make decent pay. She joined the Air Force. She was recently advanced to E4, Senior Airman, as a firefighter. She also plays soccer for the base team that plays other bases in the D.C., Virginia, Maryland area.
We may all hope our kids go to college, get a good graduate, post grad and even doctorate degree, but sometimes life throws a wrench in the plans. At that point I am sure most of us would support our kids and try to help them move forward and support their choices.
I graduated from UCLA with an electrical engineering degree and could not get anyone to hire me at a decent wage. After 9 months of being told I needed more experience I joined the Navy. That was the beginning of a great 30+ year career with the Navy that took me all over the world and had me do things I never thought I was capable of.
Some of our kids may go on to be soccer superstars, some may never play as an adult, but we will all still love them and support them.