etc1217
SILVER ELITE
I just have a gripe….
My DD’s team played an OC tournament this weekend and maybe some of your kids played in it as well. Anyway, when does a losing team get points for losing…EVER??? Since there wasn’t a championship game, the winner was based on points. My DD’s team had the stats (W-D-L) of 3-1-0, total pts of 30 (GF 15 – GA 4) and the team that “won” the championship title had stats of 3-0-1, total pts 31 (GF14 – GA 5) and my DD’s team came in second. The team won because they received their goals point in the game they lost to my DD’s team which they beat them in head-to-head competition (4-2). So how is that fair!!! I have never been to a tournament where a losing team gets any points. You lose you get “0” or at least that is how I was brought up. So now we award kids for losing?? Maybe that’s why this generation feels so "entitled" because basically we give them “wins” even though they don’t deserve it…
Am I wrong to feel this way, if so, then I will jump off my soap box...but then again this is youth soccer and nothing ever makes sense…
My DD’s team played an OC tournament this weekend and maybe some of your kids played in it as well. Anyway, when does a losing team get points for losing…EVER??? Since there wasn’t a championship game, the winner was based on points. My DD’s team had the stats (W-D-L) of 3-1-0, total pts of 30 (GF 15 – GA 4) and the team that “won” the championship title had stats of 3-0-1, total pts 31 (GF14 – GA 5) and my DD’s team came in second. The team won because they received their goals point in the game they lost to my DD’s team which they beat them in head-to-head competition (4-2). So how is that fair!!! I have never been to a tournament where a losing team gets any points. You lose you get “0” or at least that is how I was brought up. So now we award kids for losing?? Maybe that’s why this generation feels so "entitled" because basically we give them “wins” even though they don’t deserve it…
Am I wrong to feel this way, if so, then I will jump off my soap box...but then again this is youth soccer and nothing ever makes sense…