I am not really sure if this is a dig at me or just a general observation.
However, I don't really care about ECNL...it's the dd that does. She was disappointed that she was not selected. As her father, I was sad that she was sad. In hindsight, I am glad that she was not selected by the ECNL team for a few reasons. First, she wants to play a different position. If she had made the ECNL team, she would not play her desired position and she doesn't start. I see very little value in having my kid on an ECNL roster so she can watch the games from the bench. Second, I have seen multiple training sessions between the ECNL team and her team and I feel the training is better where she is. Lastly, her two best soccer friends are on her team and not on the ECNL team. As parents of daughters, I think we know how valuable the social angle is.
I don't know what the future holds for my dd, but I will tell you, if it were only my choice we would not play for any ECNL or DA club moving forward.