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Dear soccer families,

The time has come to say ciao!

From March 2012, 8.5 years ago, I’ve benefited from this community. At the beginning, I knew nothing about SoCal club soccer scene other than my small circle in south OC. Through many kind bloggers and forum contributors, I’d learned more than ever expected – thank you all, especially to those no longer posts here because, like me, kids have aged out.

For the past several years, I’ve tried to give back to the community to those who wore the same shoes I wore in the beginning. I hope I’ve helped.

Unfortunately, our older son’s fall college season is lost, and he is a graduating senior. While he can comeback, he’s expressed his desire to move onto the working world. He will end his college soccer career as a 3-year scholar athlete and finish BA Econ degree in 3.5 years.

Our younger son enters his college career remotely from our house. He’s soccer career was cut short this spring, when National Cup was cancelled. He never had any desire to play in college like his brother. Perhaps college club or intermural when kids are allowed back to campus, I hope…

So, you can see after 15 years, two kids, U6 to college soccer, our journey living vicariously has ended. Both my wife and I look at each other on the weekends and say something like “what do you want to do next” – we never had that for the last 15 years.

Last, I really want to thank Dom for creating this community. It’s really valuable for many of us from who enter club soccer madness with no background, to all the way through getting recruited by college. (also, hours of entertainment reading rants from soccercrazy, vin and alike). I know your kid has aged out several years ago, but you’ve kept this going for everyone.

Want to wish all of you best of luck and enjoy the ride (and don’t lose your perspectives)…. It all goes very quickly.

Cheers!
Mirage, aka mgkg3 (old forum name)
 
Dear soccer families,

The time has come to say ciao!

From March 2012, 8.5 years ago, I’ve benefited from this community. At the beginning, I knew nothing about SoCal club soccer scene other than my small circle in south OC. Through many kind bloggers and forum contributors, I’d learned more than ever expected – thank you all, especially to those no longer posts here because, like me, kids have aged out.

For the past several years, I’ve tried to give back to the community to those who wore the same shoes I wore in the beginning. I hope I’ve helped.

Unfortunately, our older son’s fall college season is lost, and he is a graduating senior. While he can comeback, he’s expressed his desire to move onto the working world. He will end his college soccer career as a 3-year scholar athlete and finish BA Econ degree in 3.5 years.

Our younger son enters his college career remotely from our house. He’s soccer career was cut short this spring, when National Cup was cancelled. He never had any desire to play in college like his brother. Perhaps college club or intermural when kids are allowed back to campus, I hope…

So, you can see after 15 years, two kids, U6 to college soccer, our journey living vicariously has ended. Both my wife and I look at each other on the weekends and say something like “what do you want to do next” – we never had that for the last 15 years.

Last, I really want to thank Dom for creating this community. It’s really valuable for many of us from who enter club soccer madness with no background, to all the way through getting recruited by college. (also, hours of entertainment reading rants from soccercrazy, vin and alike). I know your kid has aged out several years ago, but you’ve kept this going for everyone.

Want to wish all of you best of luck and enjoy the ride (and don’t lose your perspectives)…. It all goes very quickly.

Cheers!
Mirage, aka mgkg3 (old forum name)
Thank you for all of your positive contributions!!!!!

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Wow, thanks for sharing. I'm sad to hear about your son but congratulations on the graduation in 3.5 years is most excellent. Adult league soccer is a blast. I'm thinking about what I will write when it's all over for me next year. My wife and I plan on traveling this great country of ours in a van in 2022.
 
Dear soccer families,

The time has come to say ciao!

From March 2012, 8.5 years ago, I’ve benefited from this community. At the beginning, I knew nothing about SoCal club soccer scene other than my small circle in south OC. Through many kind bloggers and forum contributors, I’d learned more than ever expected – thank you all, especially to those no longer posts here because, like me, kids have aged out.

For the past several years, I’ve tried to give back to the community to those who wore the same shoes I wore in the beginning. I hope I’ve helped.

Unfortunately, our older son’s fall college season is lost, and he is a graduating senior. While he can comeback, he’s expressed his desire to move onto the working world. He will end his college soccer career as a 3-year scholar athlete and finish BA Econ degree in 3.5 years.

Our younger son enters his college career remotely from our house. He’s soccer career was cut short this spring, when National Cup was cancelled. He never had any desire to play in college like his brother. Perhaps college club or intermural when kids are allowed back to campus, I hope…

So, you can see after 15 years, two kids, U6 to college soccer, our journey living vicariously has ended. Both my wife and I look at each other on the weekends and say something like “what do you want to do next” – we never had that for the last 15 years.

Last, I really want to thank Dom for creating this community. It’s really valuable for many of us from who enter club soccer madness with no background, to all the way through getting recruited by college. (also, hours of entertainment reading rants from soccercrazy, vin and alike). I know your kid has aged out several years ago, but you’ve kept this going for everyone.

Want to wish all of you best of luck and enjoy the ride (and don’t lose your perspectives)…. It all goes very quickly.

Cheers!
Mirage, aka mgkg3 (old forum name)
You are a class act.
 
Dear soccer families,


Last, I really want to thank Dom for creating this community. It’s really valuable for many of us from who enter club soccer madness with no background, to all the way through getting recruited by college. (also, hours of entertainment reading rants from soccercrazy, vin and alike). I know your kid has aged out several years ago, but you’ve kept this going for everyone.

Want to wish all of you best of luck and enjoy the ride (and don’t lose your perspectives)…. It all goes very quickly.

Cheers!
Mirage, aka mgkg3 (old forum name)


That's deep and for a second I had a sparkly eye. I am almost there ( I hope not). Boys quit soccer 2 years ago and my 11 year old daughter likes it but doesnt love it. Congrats on seeing your kids make it that far. I am trying to not make the same mistakes with my little one as I did with my boys. You are right, it's going faster than I thought
 
Pleasure knowing you a upbeat positive contributing member on both forums. To you and yours:

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Dom if there is one put Mirage, aka mgkg3 in the HOF

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My wife and I talk often about what we are going to do after our kids stop playing club volleyball and soccer respectively...our life revolves around our kids, their sports, performances, etc....we make time for ourselves, each other, careers, travel when we can, and also have fun socially with the other parents on the kids teams/groups. The kids sports are a big part of our lives.

We landed on finding other hobby’s or adopting 3-4 year olds that show athletic promise....j/k

Gotta be tough when this chapter comes to a close. It’s fun watching your kids grow, mature, compete, commit, persevere, and work hard. All things that will help them be the grown-up we want them to be. Makes you proud as a parent. Glad the journey was a good one for you!
 
Mirage oh how I remember the 98/99 Boys heated discussions between Soccercrazy(Steve Lee) and Vin (United Gold). We had some great debates regarding Celtic, UFC, Legends, DMS, Pats, and Surf. It feels strange still being here at the helm, and only a few veterans (Espola, Lion Eyes) are still here from 2005. I am glad the forum has helped guide you through the SoCal Soccer landscape, and thank you for returning the knowledge back to new members.
 
Mirage oh how I remember the 98/99 Boys heated discussions between Soccercrazy(Steve Lee) and Vin (United Gold). We had some great debates regarding Celtic, UFC, Legends, DMS, Pats, and Surf. It feels strange still being here at the helm, and only a few veterans (Espola, Lion Eyes) are still here from 2005. I am glad the forum has helped guide you through the SoCal Soccer landscape, and thank you for returning the knowledge back to new members.
Were you running the forum back then? If not when did you take over?
 
Mirage oh how I remember the 98/99 Boys heated discussions between Soccercrazy(Steve Lee) and Vin (United Gold). We had some great debates regarding Celtic, UFC, Legends, DMS, Pats, and Surf. It feels strange still being here at the helm, and only a few veterans (Espola, Lion Eyes) are still here from 2005. I am glad the forum has helped guide you through the SoCal Soccer landscape, and thank you for returning the knowledge back to new members.

I miss the clueless MB and the self-owning evil JaP.
 
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