Why would you say that we aren’t a soccer playing country? Soccer is the #1 most participated sport at the youth level. Is it because our “best” athletes opt to play sports that give them an opportunity to make millions? Every sport is essentially parent-driven until the child is old enough to make the decision on their own which sport they would like to focus on. College is generally parent driven as well, so I’m missing your point.
You do realize that you are on a forum that’s sole purpose is to discuss the goings on in youth soccer and even more specifically, Southern California youth soccer, right?
No one is asking for a “magic system”. If they are, they aren’t being realistic. You’re right there isn’t one, but most are just asking for a system that gives our children the best opportunity to develop their talents, here, domestically. We have the means, structure and investment opportunities to do so, if the system is rebuilt to allow that to happen. Most other countries have a globally proven means to provide that, there is no reason why we have to be so far off those means.
In the few soccer countries I'm familiar with, a kid can walk 15 minutes to play at a really high level, with kids equally talented and enthusiastic.
Grandpa played soccer. His team picture is on the mantle, like a kind of shrine. Pictures of his favorite club and players cover his bedroom walls.
No globally proven system is necessary in such an environment, in spite of what profit-seeking coaches or trainers may tell you.
For sure there is talent here, but talent is too few and far between. There are also no heroes yet to emulate. And no understanding of what it takes to really improve (hint: not poor coaching three days a week).
So to So Cal's barely existent soccer culture, maybe 30 or so years ago(?), comes along a "coach" or two from Europe. We didn't know what a real soccer coach does or looks like, so easy for anyone savvy enough to convince parents that their kids should be playing "club" soccer under superior tutelage. Soccer came from Britain, just like this geezer who played semi pro (Sunday league).
An "academy" or two are formed, with some of the trappings of a real academies in Europe, just not really academies at all. We're still stuck with this "system" because we still don't know better. And besides, it's still a lot of fun for parents.
"Does your kid have what takes to be a soccer player"? Or rather, "does your kid have what it takes to not embarrass his coach on Saturdays, and boot the ball to the talented kid"?
And of course, do you have what it takes to pay my club to do what the rest of the world does for free?