Sounds like something a therapist would direct you to say...too deep for this conversation. I'm referring to a specific HS, coach and set of easily knowable facts and for some reason you're just throwing out BS. But frankly, I can care less what your agenda or motives are, my assessment is solid. No need to respond.
It appears we have established that this coach has worked for several clubs the last few years. How does that support your claim that "for years PHS boys program has been a Poway Vaqueros good old boy system" (especially now that you have admitted that he doesn't coach for that club any more)?