Long time lurker.......and it was just time to make an account. Please help me here. Why are so many of you bitter and angry at the process of your kids developing in soccer? Was it because you actually believed your child was good enough for the next level and it didnt happen or because you just realized you were delusional during the entire process? Im not here to start a flame fest but having young kids coming up im trying to figure out when or where the train falls off the track? Maybe im just simple minded when it comes to establishing a player who has what it takes for the next level in terms of scouting but wouldn't a tell all for not making it further is your child stops dominating at his/her position on the field and is no longer a stand out player? Are parents just that delusional and push their dreams on these kids by brain washing them in to thinking they will make it? At some point we all need to realize sports were meant to be fun and not a cash grab. Again, trying to see the light here.