ECNL vs. DA turf war has created a 'toxic environment'

LASTMAN14 said:
Don't hate you. We share mutual friends. But your posts and threads were manic. Very TMZ gone tilt. The answers should come from your experiences. The last time Dominic took posts or threads down it was over the Anaheim Surf scandal and Surf (SD) was involved, as well as Cal South. You did it all by yourself. That's impressive.
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I'm just a dad bro. Just looing for some answers. I did break the rules by writing dumb ads that just made me laugh. I'm the one guy who can ask because "WE DON'T CARE ABOUT THE COLLEGE DEAL and were not afraid to ask a few questions to a few folks. I'm not AFRIAD of hurting my dd chances because my dd is not sure college is for her. If it is no soccer in college she can still go folks, don't panic everyone. It's ok no degree in college for some right? Google Mike Rowe about college. SHE LOVES PLAYING THE GAME and she also likes to play volleyball GAMES and TRACK GAMES, PLAY PLAY PLAY. That is hard work too but it's not 10 months out of the year PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE. I'm doing this to help you all see that not all girls want to be fulltime soccer players at 12. People, let them be little girls a little. I went to GREAT PARK last night and spoke to 5 DA Dads of boys of 17 years old. All of them with confidence said, the pros is why were here. Talked to DA Dads of girls of 13 year olds and so far 99% reason is college. Not good!!!!
 
All of our daughters have interest in playing for the National Team - and all of our DD's LOVE PLAYING THE GAME - if you don't think that you are naive. Most players know the NT isn't realistic and so just focus on college as that may be a more realistic goal. You seem to think your situation is unique or more traumatic than anyone else's. You don't know what others have gone through on this journey - I just choose not to share the horror stories that my DD has gone through and she is one of the top players in her age also.
 
Justus said:
I'm just a dad bro. Just looing for some answers. I did break the rules by writing dumb ads that just made me laugh. I'm the one guy who can ask because "WE DON'T CARE ABOUT THE COLLEGE DEAL and were not afraid to ask a few questions to a few folks. I'm not AFRIAD of hurting my dd chances because my dd is not sure college is for her. If it is no soccer in college she can still go folks, don't panic everyone. It's ok no degree in college for some right? Google Mike Rowe about college. SHE LOVES PLAYING THE GAME and she also likes to play volleyball GAMES and TRACK GAMES, PLAY PLAY PLAY. That is hard work too but it's not 10 months out of the year PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE. I'm doing this to help you all see that not all girls want to be fulltime soccer players at 12. People, let them be little girls a little. I went to GREAT PARK last night and spoke to 5 DA Dads of boys of 17 years old. All of them with confidence said, the pros is why were here. Talked to DA Dads of girls of 13 year olds and so far 99% reason is college. Not good!!!!
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Your still kinda manic. Take a day to think about all that has happened and use that to guide you.
 
TY TY for all advice. I'm going to take it and chill the rest of the night. I have book in my head . Never had this happen to me before, ever I promise. I'm not a very good writer because I'm emotional sometimes and all my teachers got pissed at me and red marks all over my paper work.........SLOW DOWN!!!!!. Well, it got hard at school and liked the waves so I took the GED to get out early. Big regret in my life as I look back. I hated school!!!! Sorry, just being honest. I loved kickball, volleyball, soccer, basketball, baseball, water pole, tennis, badmitten and all things PE. So I think I can help dd out with better choice than I made since my father had parkinsins desease and was 60 when I was 14 and had more important things to deal with. I told dd must graduate HS and she's on board. I did end up going through JC and actually got real good at hoops and played a little NAIA ball so I did hit da books later like the MAPs of the world. MAP is what we try to become. He's living his DREAM, NOT MINE OR MY KIDS BUT HIS AND HIS DD AND MOM AND ONE MORE LIKE ME and for that I am so happy for da family. Really I am MAP. Props brah and you seem like a great dad I wish I had. You see folks, not all have the best of best. Sorry for long tail sentences too is that is bugging some of you. Good night you all and we can pick this up tmrw if you all like. I'm getting some weird inbox messages that is frankly scary. I tried to take screen shot but got blocked so quick I thought someone was in my office. Spooky stuff. Kinda a little heads up for da war against the little guy. I'm Scottish I think because I was adopted. William Wallace is great hero of mine as is MLK, Mother Terresa, Saint Frances. When I hear the bagpipes play and Scottish music I get FIRED UP!!!! "Give me back my freedom"
 
Soccer43 said:
All of our daughters have interest in playing for the National Team - and all of our DD's LOVE PLAYING THE GAME - if you don't think that you are naive. Most players know the NT isn't realistic and so just focus on college as that may be a more realistic goal. You seem to think your situation is unique or more traumatic than anyone else's. You don't know what others have gone through on this journey - I just choose not to share the horror stories that my DD has gone through and she is one of the top players in her age also.
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I'm so happy for you. I don't want to share but I'm looking for EQUAL OPPORTUNITY. The first step is to announce your goal to everyone. Goal can't be college to find the best of the best. It won't work. Don't look for best soccer player/Student to be best. Must be Soccer only and if you have some brains great. All da best are going to skip anyways and go pro. We ant the chance too! I have to stop to follow the advice now. No more posts because I might get tempted to respond. Good night
 
Justus said:
TY TY for all advice. I'm going to take it and chill the rest of the night. I have book in my head . Never had this happen to me before, ever I promise. I'm not a very good writer because I'm emotional sometimes and all my teachers got pissed at me and red marks all over my paper work.........SLOW DOWN!!!!!. Well, it got hard at school and liked the waves so I took the GED to get out early. Big regret in my life as I look back. I hated school!!!! Sorry, just being honest. I loved kickball, volleyball, soccer, basketball, baseball, water pole, tennis, badmitten and all things PE. So I think I can help dd out with better choice than I made since my father had parkinsins desease and was 60 when I was 14 and had more important things to deal with. I told dd must graduate HS and she's on board. I did end up going through JC and actually got real good at hoops and played a little NAIA ball so I did hit da books later like the MAPs of the world. MAP is what we try to become. He's living his DREAM, NOT MINE OR MY KIDS BUT HIS AND HIS DD AND MOM AND ONE MORE LIKE ME and for that I am so happy for da family. Really I am MAP. Props brah and you seem like a great dad I wish I had. You see folks, not all have the best of best. Sorry for long tail sentences too is that is bugging some of you. Good night you all and we can pick this up tmrw if you all like. I'm getting some weird inbox messages that is frankly scary. I tried to take screen shot but got blocked so quick I thought someone was in my office. Spooky stuff. Kinda a little heads up for da war against the little guy. I'm Scottish I think because I was adopted. William Wallace is great hero of mine as is MLK, Mother Terresa, Saint Frances. When I hear the bagpipes play and Scottish music I get FIRED UP!!!! "Give me back my freedom"
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What, I have no idea what this post was about?
 
I'm back, I can't do it. People want to know THE TRUTH!!!! You guys just don't get it. PERCEPTION is wrong and hopefully this dad won't be hated by all the dads and moms who want DEGREES ONLY FOR DEAR DAUGHTER!!!!!! My dd still wants a chance at THE LIST. VERY IMPORTANT LIST FORALL OF YOU SO YOU CAN GO TO BIG U. My DD is competing for THE LIST. She wants an EQUAL OPPORTUNITY to make THE LIST so she can train with other top players her age and get a shot on THE NATIONAL TEAM SOMEDAY IN THE FUTURE but she can't now because the US SOCCER FEDERATION won't let her because she plays HS Soccer. VERY COVETED PRIZE, YOU THINK?????????. All you educated folks think I'm off my rocker, drinking, damaging my dd reputation and so on "Bro, take a breather. "Are you ok?" "Dude, stop man". "Seriously bro, are you on something? BIG STUFF FOLKS. I've been training for this and I had no idea why life was throwing curve balls my way. BTW, Threats to my inbox is not cool. I will take threats to the FBI so please stop for your sake. It's time to turn on the LIGHTS AND TAKE A LOOK UNDER DA HOOD. I have a few questions and so does my dd. NO DA PARTICIPATION = NO NAME ON LIST FROM NON DA SOCCER PLAYERS? Why? IS THIS FAIR FOR ALL THE OTHER NON DA CLUBS AROUND THE GREAT PARK, NOCAL FOLKS, SAN DIEGO, OHIO, MICHIGAN AND ALL THOSE GIRLS THAT CHOSE HIGH SCHOOL SOCCER THIS YEAR AS FRESHMAN? 04s LIKE MY DD NOT PARTICIPATING IN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA GIRLS YOUTH SOCCER LEAGUE BECAUSE THEY PLAY HIGH SOCCER THAT I BELIEVE IS FUNDED AND SUPPORTTED BY THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA IS INSANE AND MINE BUGGLING THAT I CANT SLEEP!!!!
THE LIST IS GIVEN TO EVERY MAJOR COLLEGE IN AMERICA! ALSO, ONLY CLUBS AND PLAYERS THAT SIGN WITH THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA GIRLS SOCCER LEAGUE GET ON THE U16 LIST FOR 2019. WHY? VERY IMPORTANT LIST TO BE ON RIGHT? TOO BAD FOR THE CLUBS AND GIRLS WHO CHOSE HIGH SCHOOL SOCCER THIS YEAR LIKE IN MICHIGAN WHERE HIGH SCHOOL SOCCER IS LEGENDARY. ALSO GOOD FOR CLUBS FROM DA TO MARKET (BAIT) TO DUMB, UNEDUCATED DAD AND UNREALSTIC "PIPE DREAMER dd." Are you guys from the education side not getting this? MANDATED BY THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES of America to find Americas top 04s in the country for U16 and U20 WORLD CUP. BIG DREAM FOR MY DD but kicked out of the UNITED STATES SOCCER FEDERATION DEVELOPMENTAL LEAGUE BECAUSE THE WORLD IS WATCHING????? Doe this equate to logic? You're all in the wrong contest. My dd got $OLD something completely different then the rest of yu. Its obvious from all your posts. Me and my kid got the old "BAIT AND SWITCH." my DEAR DAUGHTER, still believes SHE has a shot of that DREAM!!!! You all were sold ECNL, CSL, SDDSL, AYSO and all the great soccer orgs out there. These clubs and coaches sold training in both soccer and academics. EVERYONE KNEW WANT THEY WERE BUYING, which was college degree and soccer and that makes all the sense in the world now. Light went on moment. My daughter and I we were sold something else, you understand now?????? Another question directly from my dear daughter to the USDA. Why NO HIGH SCHOOL SOCCER IF YOU WANT TO PARTICIPATE IN THE DA when PRAIVATE SCHOOL KIDS GOT WAIVER AT THE LAST MOMENT AND GOT IN? Quick thought from pops: I kind of find it odd that they get a WAIVER TO PLAY HS SOCCER BUT MY DD AND FEW OTHERS AROUND THE COUNTRY GET NO WAIVER BEACUSE THEY PLAY HS SOCCER. EQUAL OPPORTUNITY, NO? I hope you don't kill the messenger. I know I believe in America and it's core values of EQUAL OPPORTUNITY. You can't deny NON DA Players a chance TO PARTICIPAYE while holding the coveted spots as leverage and I believe unfair business practice towards club with less money. More to come, TRUST ME!!!
 
By the way we were sold in away that most would find hard to believe and frankly sad for my dd. We got bamboozled, you know played a little if you know what I mean with the TRAINING CENTER. I'm easily trusting which I like about myself. I don't know very much about club soccer and all. I'm learning more each day how POWERFUL it is with INFLUNCE unlike anything I've witnessed. Crazy stuff
 
Ok, we have seen six of the seven stages of grief:
shock, denial, anger, bargaining, guilt, depression.
Shake hands with acceptance so you really help your dd in her time of need.
 
Gokicksomegrass said:
Ok, we have seen six of the seven stages of grief:
shock, denial, anger, bargaining, guilt, depression.
Shake hands with acceptance so you really help your dd in her time of need.
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What is #7. Yes, I have had a few of those stages. I'm here to open up a dialogue with UNITED STATES GIRSL SOCCER FEDERATION so we can shake hands and move on. But like I said before, my dd and other 04 girls around this country have a question why there not allowed to PARTICIPAT IN THE UNITES STATES OF AMERICA GIRLS DEVELOPMENT SOCCER LEAGUE. Is that ok?
 
Justus is 100% correct total BS in favor of private schools only.

Sorry Justus but you can't win against the big bad wolf although I commend you for putting up the good fight.

Having said that maybe have your DD play HS fresh/soph and they DA the rest of her years when it gets more serious?
 
You sound crazy and the golden rule in youth soccer is crazy troublesome parent=blacklisted player. No matter how good your player is, coaches want no part of the crazy you are sharing on a public forum. You are not winning any battles here. You are doing more damage to your DD's career by your rambling posts than by any conflict around the DA/HS debate. Color coding and CAPS don't help. Either you have a different purpose for your posts this week or are not too self aware. Others have tried to warn you about this but seems you are not getting it
 
You are doing more damage to your DD's career by your rambling posts than by any conflict around the DA/HS debate.


Wait! @Soccer43, are you inferring that people know who we are on here?
 
Soccer43 said:
You sound crazy and the golden rule in youth soccer is crazy troublesome parent=blacklisted player. No matter how good your player is, coaches want no part of the crazy you are sharing on a public forum. You are not winning any battles here. You are doing more damage to your DD's career by your rambling posts than by any conflict around the DA/HS debate. Color coding and CAPS don't help. Either you have a different purpose for your posts this week or are not too self aware. Others have tried to warn you about this but seems you are not getting it
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It's "pipe dream" so she won't be coached by anyone from US SOCCER FEDERATION OF AMERICA GIRLS YOUTH DEVELOPMENAL LEAGUE ONLY FOR DA GIRLS AND GIRLS THAT GO TO PRIVATE SCHOOL!!!! MY GIRL AND 1/3 OF THE COUNTRY WERE NOT ALLOWED TO PARTICIPATE IN THE PROCESS OF BEING SCOUTED BY ALL THE US SCOUTS MANDATED BY THE PRESIDENT OF THE USA TO FIND ALL THE TOP PLAYERS IN THE USA WHO HAVE THE DREAM, THE PHYSICAL ABILITY, DESRIE AND MENTAL TOUGHNESS TO REPRESENT THE USA. WORLD IS WATCHING!!!!
 
RJONESUSC thinks this is dumb. Please RJ, share why so dumb? Anyone from SC or Yale should not comment right now. "pay to play" needs to end now for America sake!!!!!
 
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