I know you're of the "too much too soon" perspective, but I have to correct you. We're discussing D.A. For next year's u13, so 2006s.
The way I see it, as long as the club is not in jeopardy of losing its DA status and they're doing all the right things as Striker pointed out, who gives a rats ass about the W-L record. They will all be at the exact same showcases and be seen by the same college coaches or national team scouts.
I think you'll see as your DD gets older it's more about her and less about the team (of course, as long as she's on a team that gets to the showcases). If you're on a DA team, then it's all about your player.