Wait doesn't season end after Thanksgiving?To all the parents looking to switch their ulittle to another team before the season is over, good job teaching your kids to cur out before the season ends. It's freakin ulittle soccer not college soccer.
It really is no big deal. Even with college soccer and the pros, people switch all the time. Why stay in an unhappy situation if you don't want to and why force it on a little if they are not happy. I have bought projects, started them, not what I envisioned and then tossed them. Sometimes its not worth it and the benefits outweigh. Cut your losses.
Wait doesn't season end after Thanksgiving?
I don't think League sees it that way unfortunately.The year doesn't end until State Cup is done.
Says who? maybe your club who wants to lock in its paying customers, but CalSouth says it ends after thanksgiving which is why players can freely transfer after. They are the governing body and if it wasn't Ok they wouldn't allow it.The year doesn't end until State Cup is done.
Bingo! Club may have it in their contracts but we all know those contracts can't be held up if anyone decides to leaveSays who? maybe your club who wants to lock in its paying customers, but CalSouth says it ends after thanksgiving which is why players can freely transfer after. They are the governing body and if it wasn't Ok they wouldn't allow it.
I don't think League sees it that way unfortunately.
Says who? maybe your club who wants to lock in its paying customers, but CalSouth says it ends after thanksgiving which is why players can freely transfer after. They are the governing body and if it wasn't Ok they wouldn't allow it.
I have always told my kids you will always finish what you start. However, there are also always “extenuating circumstances” (bullies, problematic coaches, etc) that would be addressed as such. So I’m ahort I agree with you. However, like you said, it is youth soccer so my question is, what happened to piss you off so much?I understand CalSouth transfer rule. I'm talking on principle, but I guess that just shows how youth soccer as a whole is messed up.
It's got you all worked up. Relax. It's just littles soccer. Bail when it gets rough? Nah but I have seen kids get screwed over in more ways than one just because they stuck around in a bad situation because of people that reacted the way you are. They later regretted it and said they should have left sooner. I'm just saying sometimes its not worth it to stick around.You are missing the point LBSoccer. This isn't college or the pros. What parents are teaching their kids is bail when things aren't going their way. Sounds like you are a part of the problem of this new generation. Bail when the ish get rough. How to be a coward 101.
The kids aren't the ones who scheduled tryouts a month or two prior to State Cup.You are missing the point LBSoccer. This isn't college or the pros. What parents are teaching their kids is bail when things aren't going their way. Sounds like you are a part of the problem of this new generation. Bail when the ish get rough. How to be a coward 101.
To all the parents looking to switch their ulittle to another team before the season is over, good job teaching your kids to cur out before the season ends. It's freakin ulittle soccer not college soccer.
Why on God’s green flat earth would YOU...an adult...care if a little kid goes to play on another team? Is this some high moral stand you are taking?? Nope. You are that parent on the sideline with the passive aggressive snarky comments to the refs and other little kids...”good job teaching your kids” lines when you mean the opposite. Haha grow up and learn to use direct speech not snarky sarcastic valley girl rants on a forum.
The truth is your state cup dreams have been dashed by the actions of another parent who moved thier kid. Just be honest...you are throwing a tantrum...Remember it’s ulittle soccer. It’s not that serious.
It's got you all worked up. Relax. It's just littles soccer. Bail when it gets rough? Nah but I have seen kids get screwed over in more ways than one just because they stuck around in a bad situation because of people that reacted the way you are. They later regretted it and said they should have left sooner. I'm just saying sometimes its not worth it to stick around.
To all the parents looking to switch their ulittle to another team before the season is over, good job teaching your kids to cur out before the season ends. It's freakin ulittle soccer not college soccer.
Sometimes it is just better to leave. The only loyalty that you need to have is to your own child. Unfortunately 95% of all clubs/coaches will do whatever is in their best interest. Do what is in your player's best interest especially at the younger ages. They are the most critical. If my daughter had stayed on her first club team I doubt that she would be playing D1 soccer now and clearly not because of her ability.
I pulled my player from her first club team 2 weeks into the league season due to the coach not holding up her end of the bargain. I told all the parents and that coach a month ahead of time if things don't change we weren't going to wait until the season ended and that they would be giving us a full refund. We got the refund, she moved to a team in the same division and proceeded to kick her old teams a$$ the couple of times that they played them that year.