DA Showcase Day One-

Must be painful for parents who's kids academic success is hinged on missing 4 days of school.
Totally hear you...but at the end of the day it comes down to whatever works for US Soccer. It’s better that these young athletes get used to how the real world works. When they get to College they will have road trips/away games during exams and finals. Mommy and Daddy won’t be there to talk to their instructors about academic overload.

Someday they will go out in the work force and realize that the world doesn’t evolve around them. Parents still have options...they can opt out of DA, play high school, play DPL or another League, and take there chances at a college ID camp. I bet every kid at the DA Showcase is there with with the blessing of their schools and Parents.
Actually, some colleges make accommodations for their athletes.
 
That is a great turnout.

Over the years we have given up on trying to work with the teachers in advance, except for a select few that are organized, reasonable humans. Public schools are in no way interested in allowing absences for athletics since every day a student misses school means about $50.00 less for the school. We just call in sick everyday now.

The most college coaches I ever saw at one of DD's game was at a scrimmage between Carlsbad and Legends on the Friday before Surf Cup. There were over 80 coaches on the sideline for one game.
Point of information only, in California it does not matter the reason for the absence, the school looses money if a student is absent, unless they do an independent study contract which needs to be for a minimum of five days. By the end of April or middle of May the schools have received their maximum ADA so if a student is absent they don't loose money at that point, they don't want anyone to know that though. Bottom line, students do need to keep absences to a minimum for their own academic success. High school is more complicated with the homework, classwork all being important to a students success and future.
 
That is a great turnout.

Over the years we have given up on trying to work with the teachers in advance, except for a select few that are organized, reasonable humans. Public schools are in no way interested in allowing absences for athletics since every day a student misses school means about $50.00 less for the school. We just call in sick everyday now.

The most college coaches I ever saw at one of DD's game was at a scrimmage between Carlsbad and Legends on the Friday before Surf Cup. There were over 80 coaches on the sideline for one game.

Good info. I saw the DA abscence waiver Online. I think your strategy is a lot better. Thanks for the useful information about it. We have the same issues even with one day abscenses for other pursuits so I was suprised to hear no one else had that issue.
 
Good info. I saw the DA abscence waiver Online. I think your strategy is a lot better. Thanks for the useful information about it. We have the same issues even with one day abscenses for other pursuits so I was suprised to hear no one else had that issue.

This might be bad karma but I have also used the “family emergency” excuse.
 
I don’t think US Soccer really cares about finals, school or any other obligations. It’s just like the real world...you can’t please everyone. So those that want to be part of the experience show up ready to play with a chance of being recruited.
Like the "real world" maybe US soccer can flip the showcase time with the boys, that would have been a better time in terms of finals. Flip it every year to be fair.
 
Don’t take it personal, I wasn’t slamming you or your DD...just trying to keep it real. Players are already getting offers from the 2021 graduating class. My DD had offers after her sophomore year and accepted the school that had her major and fit most of the check marks on her list. I don’t think I ever called you a name so let’s not go in that direction. Good luck to your DD but I don’t think you should be commenting about the DA Showcase if your DD doesn’t play on a DA Team...now you can go away.

I believe her DD does play DA. Very smart kid as well. I don’t think they are looking at the same type of school many others are.
 
@chargerfan I win the bet. :) I love how people here when they get challenged attack a kid. No class and this time no intelligence either
Um....how did LTD attack your kid? Did I miss something? I read it as an assumption that your DD hasn’t started the recruiting process based on age.

But, why does everyone everyone have to take it down to an ignorant level when someone disagrees with you and not be kind? “you sound like a BAFOON”. - practice what you preach - gentle reminder

Nice to hear Albion ‘04’s are getting a lot of visibility to College Coaches! It’s a good program with a bright future.
 
Again kicker you have no idea. I expect this from you you don't know me or my dd! Another block tired of this silliness with no knowledge of facts
 
Um....how did LTD attack your kid? Did I miss something? I read it as an assumption that your DD hasn’t started the recruiting process based on age.

But, why does everyone everyone have to take it down to an ignorant level when someone disagrees with you and not be kind? “you sound like a BAFOON”. - practice what you preach - gentle reminder

Nice to hear Albion ‘04’s are getting a lot of visibility to College Coaches! It’s a good program with a bright future.

Her DD is not at Albion.

Are there 04s at the showcase this week?
 
So if a Power 5 School (Pac12, Big12, SEC...) or any D1 for that matter, offered your DD a roster spot with $$ after her sophomore year, would you take it? Or would you really tell them “NO” come back after her Junior year...lol.

I remember when the process started for our DD. The wifey/I discussed w/our dd that a decision/commitment would not be made until after she completed her sophomore year of HS....no matter what carrot anyone dangled in front of her.

Well, that all went out the window when the school of her dreams rolled out the red carpet, made her feel at home and that they would path her once she committed.

So I guess my point is you never know. This is a really cool part of the journey for your girls. Often, what you initially think/consider, changes as different opportunities arise.
 
Well aware. I know you know it intimately as well. They are placed in a list but doesn't change the likely letter. For the record I respect your opinion and credibility greatly!

Shucks.....I'm just a squirrel in the world trying to get a nut.

Best of luck to you/your dd.

 
When your kid is taking AP classes, 4 days off is brutal.
Even worse is AP classes with a lab like Chemistry that is graded on the curve. In 4 days, a student might have a quiz, a lab, homework and a test, especially the week or two before winter break when teachers usually slam kids with work. It is up to the teacher whether a soccer trip is an excused absent or not. And if not excused, they don't have to let you make it up.
 
Even worse is AP classes with a lab like Chemistry that is graded on the curve. In 4 days, a student might have a quiz, a lab, homework and a test, especially the week or two before winter break when teachers usually slam kids with work. It is up to the teacher whether a soccer trip is an excused absent or not. And if not excused, they don't have to let you make it up.
They have to let you make it up if you have an independent student contract (must be at least 5 days or more), it is the law. You can fight it at the school district if necessary!
 
Simi- it's Not crazy, it's reality. Each and every drop of sweat from those poor moms is well worth it when those school scouts (coaches) tell your girls/DD....."Susie....we would like you to be part of our program".

Best of luck to you/your DD, it is a tremendous opportunity and if she/you navigate it effectively, it can change the tragectory of her future.

Truth.
Just for the sake of argument, let’s say little Susie has excellent grades and can get into the college of her choice. Let’s say little Susie’s family has been saving for her education. How will it benefit little Susie to play college soccer in that scenario? Will it change the trajectory of her future? Honestly curious about your thoughts. My husband played college football. He would rather the kids focus on being full time students rather than be full time athletes who are also students.

Ok, I’m gonna brace myself now for the onslaught.
 
Just for the sake of argument, let’s say little Susie has excellent grades and can get into the college of her choice. Let’s say little Susie’s family has been saving for her education. How will it benefit little Susie to play college soccer in that scenario? Will it change the trajectory of her future? Honestly curious about your thoughts. My husband played college football. He would rather the kids focus on being full time students rather than be full time athletes who are also students.

Ok, I’m gonna brace myself now for the onslaught.

I guess it all depends on why little Susie plays the game.
 
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